儿童的知识经验不足,特别是儿童的意识是以“我”为轴心的,所以,认识事物粗浅而片面,是非观念不明确,导致他们言行上的一些形形色色的缺点错误。“设身处地法”能使儿童认识全面,体验深刻;能增强儿童的自我意识和对是非的判断力;能增强儿童的责任感。例如,我的孩子有时爱欺负小弟弟。有一天,他哭着回家,说有个哥哥打了他,要我帮他打那个哥哥。我教育他,打人骂人都是不对的,然后我问他:“你被别人打了,心里怎样想的?”孩子回答:“我不高兴,我恨 Children’s lack of knowledge and experience, especially children’s consciousness, is based on ”I “. Therefore, understanding things is superficial and one-sided, which leads to some kinds of shortcomings and mistakes in their words and deeds. ”Put yourself in the law “ can make children fully aware and experienced; can enhance children’s self-awareness and right and wrong judgments; can enhance children’s sense of responsibility. For example, my child sometimes loves younger brother. One day, he cried and went home, saying that a brother had called him and wanted me to help him fight that brother. I educate him, beating people to curse is wrong, and then I asked him: ”You were hit by someone else, how do you think?“ ”The child replied: " I am not happy, I hate