对暴力发出有效警告,达到遏制的目的,也叫“零容忍”。我们夫妻同行,我教中学,老公教大学。在家里我显得比较强势,原因是我做家务多过他,太忙太烦,喜欢唠叨几句。老公博士学历,性格修养都不错,我动了气,他就走开,从不和我吵。近年来他却添了个毛病,有时发邪火,摔东西。上次我为琐事说他,他又摔了碗碟,我也急了,与他对着摔。他竟挥拳打我。男人手重,我没反应过来便摔倒在地。家庭暴力,以前对于我只是传说,我总认为暴力男是有特征的,可以识别,他们神经躁狂,猥琐变态。然而,事情就这 Effective warning of violence, to contain the purpose, also called “zero tolerance ”. Our husband and wife peers, I teach high school, my husband taught college. At home, I seem more powerful, because I do more than housework, too busy and too tired, like nagging a few words. My husband’s doctor education, personality training are good, I moved, he left, never quarrel with me. In recent years, he has added a problem, sometimes fiery, threw things. Last time I said he was trifles, he fell the dishes again, I was in a hurry, and fell against him. He punched me. Man heavy hand, I did not react over it fell to the ground. Domestic violence, I used to be a legend, I always think that violence is characterized by men, can identify their manic mania, insignificant metamorphosis. However, this is the case