时下的家庭,夫妻受教育程度普遍提高,因而教育孩子时,都讲得出一套套的大道理来。譬如:一些家长常以伟人、名人等做榜样教育,要孩子去仿效,以树立远大目标,并为之奋斗;为帮助孩子认识缺点改正错误,一些家长常上升到“理论高度”,“上纲上线”地为孩子推理出“影响前途”的危害来。但是这样做的效果并不理想。久而久之,一些家长哀叹:“该讲的道理,我们都讲了,但他还是老样子。现在的孩子真难教啊!” Nowadays families and couples are generally educated, so when they teach their children, they all come up with a set of principles. For example, some parents often use great examples such as great people and celebrities to educate their children so as to establish their ambitious goals and strive for them. Some parents often go up to the “theoretical level” in order to help children understand the shortcomings. On the line “for the child reasoning out the” impact on the future “of the harm. But the effect of this is not ideal. As time passes, some parents lament: ”The truth we talked about, but he is still the same. Now the children really difficult to teach!"