“在安全无虞和物质殷实的环境里,人们大多不愿接受各种清规戒律的束缚,不轻信、不盲从形形色色的权威,张扬个性和独立思考的求异倾向会日益普遍。”不得不看到,当今社会生活中,人们更多的是一种“唯我”意识,一种“求异”倾向。一个事关公共利益的信息发布之后,质疑之声都会汹涌而来。在事件面前,来自不同阶层的社会群体不再众口一辞,而是各执一词。打破了大一统的模式之后的这几十年,无论哪个社会各个领域,都从未像现在这般充斥着各种不一样的声音。这是过去几十年来我们社会的一种进步,更是一种挑战。诚然,任何社会都需要不一样的声音,但是更多时候我们需要的是信任、是热情、是社会共识。如何在人们的“唯我”意识和“求异”倾向中找到一种向心力和凝聚力,这就需要找到社会的“黏合剂”。 “In a safe and materialistic environment, most people are unwilling to accept the restraint of various rules and regulations, and they believe that they will not be blindsided by all kinds of authority, publicity and independent thinking tend to be more commonplace.” See, today’s social life, people are more of a “only me ” consciousness, a “variation ” tendency. After a piece of information related to the public interest is released, the voices of questions of voices will be raging. In front of the incident, social groups from different social strata no longer speak out of their mouths. After decades of breaking the pattern of unification, these various decades of social life have never been filled with all sorts of different voices. This is an improvement in our society over the past few decades and it is even a challenge. It is true that any society needs a different voice, but more often we need trust, enthusiasm and social consensus. How to find a kind of centripetal force and cohesion in the people ’s “only self ” consciousness and “difference ” ’ s tendency, this needs to find the social “glue ”.