我大学时候宿舍一姐们儿跟我说:“我妈这辈子没什么大出息,就因为我爸时她太好了,她太幸福了。”在这个姐们儿跟我说完此话三年之后,她的父亲不幸去世了。这个世界总是在和女人开各种各样的残忍的玩笑,以上的事例完全可以证明这一点。女人的天性注定了在感情里的弱势。如果生下来染色体没有异常,还是一个“女”的属性,那么如果仅仅是凭着感性去走,注定要去寻求一份“安全感”。这份安全感,大多数是要靠男人给的:一个安全的家,一份安全的感情,一个安 When I was in college, my daughters told me: “My mom did not make a big difference in my life because she was so happy when my daddy was. She was so happy.” Three years later, her father passed away unhappy. This world is always in a variety of cruel jokes with women, the above examples can prove it. The nature of a woman destined to be weak in the feelings. If the chromosome is born without abnormalities, or a “female ” attribute, then if only by emotional to go, doomed to seek a “sense of security ”. Most of this sense of security depends on men: a safe home, a safe feeling, a safe