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古人云:“月有阴晴圆缺,人有悲欢离合,此事古难全。”牙齿和舌头终身相守,免不了有磕碰的时候。在现实生活中,婚姻家庭纠纷也的确难免。然而,重要的是矛盾纠纷一旦发生,由于调解工作的优劣有别,其结果就大不一样了。因此,调解婚姻家庭纠纷,这就要求调解人员注意工作方法,讲究调解艺术。怎样讲究调解艺术?笔者在工作实践中的体会是:一、配好“对手”。就是根据纠纷的特点找到与之相适应的人来进行调解。生活中不乏这样的例子,同样一句话,不同人来说效果不尽相同。有的当事人爱面子、最怕家丑外扬,于是,找一位至亲至密的亲友来调解,只要说上三两句便可见效。有的
The ancients said: “there is a full moon, people have the joys and sorrows, this ancient and difficult.” Teeth and tongue lifelong, inevitably bump. In real life, marriage and family disputes are indeed unavoidable. However, what is important is that once contradictions and disputes occur, the result will be quite different due to the difference between the advantages and the merits of mediation. Therefore, the mediation of marriage and family disputes, which requires mediators pay attention to working methods, pay attention to mediation art. How to pay attention to the art of mediation? The author’s experience in the work of practice is: First, with a good “adversary.” It is based on the characteristics of the dispute to find the appropriate person to mediate. There are many examples of life, the same word, different people, the effect is not the same. Some parties love to face their children, they are most afraid of being outgrown. So, looking for a close relative to friends and relatives to mediate, as long as the last two or three can be effective. some