关于爱情与婚姻,著名学者林语堂曾有过一个非常精辟的比喻。他说:“爱情是点心,婚姻是饭。”点心是粗茶淡饭之后的一种消遣,看着动人,嚼着有味,却永远无法填饱肚子;而饭却是日日不可缺少的食物,一日三餐,至少两餐必须吃饭,否则饥饿难挡,日渐消瘦。因此,人可以不吃点心,却不能不吃饭。 About love and marriage, the famous scholar Lin Yutang had a very incisive metaphor. He said: “Love is dim sum, marriage is a meal. ” Dessert is a pastime after a pastry, watching moving, chewing flavor, but never fill the stomach; but rice is an indispensable food , Three meals a day, at least two meals must eat, or starve, getting thinner. Therefore, people can not eat snacks, but can not eat.