有一位妈妈问我:女儿12岁,可是不爱跟父母说话,问她什么也不爱回答,怎么办?近年来,父母都会注意要和孩子沟通,建立良好的亲子关系,但若只是父母单方面主动说话,孩子却没有响应,也无法沟通啊。我了解这位母亲的忧虑。孩子不说话,不代表他们没有想法,只是他们没有表达出来。到后来问题行为出现时,父母定会措手不及,一时之间也搞不懂孩子为什么会如此。 A mother asked me: My daughter is 12 years old, but I do not like to talk to my parents. Ask her what she does not like to answer. What should I do? In recent years, parents will pay attention to communicating with their children and establishing a good parent-child relationship. Take the initiative to speak, the children did not respond, it can not communicate ah. I understand the mother’s worries. Children do not speak, does not mean that they have no idea, but they did not express it. Later, the behavior of the problem appears, parents will be caught unprepared, sometimes also do not understand why children would be so.