1.孩子撒谎怎么办?训斥非良策。笔者的孩子有段时间经常撒谎。放学回家迟了,明明是与同学在玩,却谎说老师拖了课。为此,他没少挨我的训斥。可惜,他并没有改掉撒谎的坏毛病。有一次,他又撒谎,被我揭穿了。尽管我很生气,但没有像往常那样的训斥他,而是以大朋友的身份请他说为什么要撒谎?他说:因为贪玩,玩得忘了时间,回家晚了怕挨骂,就想到了撒谎;还有,就是由于撒了谎,我们相信了,他没遭到训斥,尝到了“甜”头,感到撒谎是保护自己的法宝。听了孩子的这一番话,我便深深地感到训斥这种方式是不足取的,而应当给他一个 1. What to do when a child is lying? The author’s children often lie for some time. Late home after school, obviously playing with classmates, but lie to the teacher drag the class. To this end, he did not suffer less reprimanded me. Unfortunately, he did not get rid of the bad habits of lying. Once, he lied again and I was exposed. Although I am angry, but did not reprimand him as usual, but as a big friend asked him why he should lie? He said: because of fun, to forget the time to play, to go home late scared to scold But also because of lying, we believe, he was not reprimanded, tasted the sweet head, feeling lying is a magic weapon to protect themselves. As I listened to my child’s words, I deeply felt that it was not enough to reprimand this method. Instead, I should give him a