卡耐基在《人性的弱点》一书中指出:“每个人的天性都是喜欢别人的赞美。赞美更容易鼓励人进步。”我们每个人都渴望得到别人的赞美,但也不能忘了真诚地欣赏和赞美别人,因为人生需要赞美。英国喜剧演员卓别林小时候,有一年圣诞节,学校组织合唱团,卓别林落选了,他很沮丧。之后,卓别林在班上背诵了一段喜剧歌词,博得大家的喝彩。老师说:“虽然你唱得不好,但表演很有幽默的天分。” Carnegie pointed out in his book “The Human Weakness,” that “Everyone’s nature is like the compliments of others, and compliments are more likely to encourage people to progress.” Each of us desires to be praised by others, but we must not forget our sincerity Appreciate and praise others, because life needs praise. When Britney Spears, a British comedian, was a kid, Christmas was a year, organized by the school choir, Chaplin was dropped, and he was frustrated. After that, Chaplin recites a comic lyrics in class to win everyone’s applause. The teacher said: “Although you are not singing well, the performance is very humorous.”