害羞、孤僻和自卑是人际交往中常常出现的障碍,阻碍了人际关系的正常发展。害羞有三种类型:一是气质性害羞,即生来性格比较内向,说话低声细语,见到陌生人就脸红,甚至有一种胆怯的心理,举手投足、寻路问津也思前想后,顾虑重重;二是认识性害羞,即过分注意“自我”,患得患失心太重,担心自己的言行不对而被人耻笑,说话做事都要有绝对把握后才进行,不敢冒然行事,因而总是受环境和别人言 Shy, withdrawn and low self-esteem is a common obstacle in interpersonal relationships, hindering the normal development of interpersonal relationships. There are three types of shy: First, the temperament of shy, that is introverted more introverted, whisper words to see strangers to blush, and even a timid psychology, gestures, find ways to ask also think before thinking about the second; Cognitive shy, that is, excessive attention to “self”, suffering from distraught too heavy, worried about their own words and deeds were ridiculed, speaking things must be absolutely sure after the conduct, not adventurous, and therefore always subject to the environment and others