米兰·昆德拉在他的名著《生命中不可承受之轻》一书中对生死有着透彻的见解,他说:“轻就是重,重就是轻,轻重之间最难分辨……”更进一步举例说明五百年前非洲两个部落间之厮杀,一夕之间家破人亡、妻离子散,那特定的一夜过后,残活下来的人承受生命的巨大改变,多少锥心的刺痛,恐怕只有经历过的人才能感受,言语其实已 Milan Kundera had a thorough understanding of life and death in his famous book “Unbearable Lightness in Life.” He said: “Light is heavy, light and heavy, and light and heavy is the most difficult to distinguish...” Further exemplifying the assassination of two tribes in Africa five hundred years ago, the family died overnight and his wife was scattered. After that particular night, the surviving people endured tremendous changes in their lives. I am afraid that only people who have experienced can feel it. Actually, speech has been