近几年包括目前正在进行的新课程改革当中,中小学普遍提倡赏识教育,有的还试行无批评教育,但由于在宣传赏识教育上的一些偏颇,不少人认为好孩子是夸出来的,实施惩罚就会使孩子的心灵受到创伤不利于孩子的成长。在这种认识影响下,有的孩子因家长及学校的批评惩罚而做出了诸如离家出走、状告老师等极端举动;有的学生家长不但自己娇惯孩子,尽力满足孩子的要求,而 In recent years, including the ongoing reform of the new curriculum, primary and secondary schools generally advocate the appreciation of education, and some also try non-criticism of education, but due to some biased publicity education, many people think that good children are boasted, Imposing punishments can hurt the child’s mind which is detrimental to the child’s growth. Under the influence of this understanding, some children have made extreme moves such as running away from home and suing teachers when parents and schools criticize and punish. Some parents not only spoil their children and try their best to satisfy their children’s needs,