中国人常说,老外的面孔看起来是一个样;老外也常奇怪:中国朋友长得怎么那样的相似? 远远地看见一队统一着装的幼儿园孩子,你会觉得,他们都像是按统一标准、从一个模子里刻出来的。——接下来会怎样呢?当我们有了一个(也正是因为只有一个)自己的孩子的时候,我们也会倾向于用一些“标准的孩子”的特点看待自己的孩子。当自己的孩子有些地方与“标准的孩子”不同的时候,我们就会老大的不放心。 Chinese often say that foreigners face looks like a; foreigners often strange: How Chinese friends look like that? See a group of children dressed in kindergarten children, you will feel that they are like unified Standard, carved out of a mold. - What happens next? When we have a (and precisely because there is only one) own child, we also tend to treat our child with some of the characteristics of a “standard child.” When some of our children are different from “standard children,” we are not assured about our boss.