家长爱孩子,可很多时候,却把自己定位为孩子的权威,甚至用命令的口吻强制孩子按自己的意志行事,用冗长的道理来说教,甚至极不耐烦地指责孩子这不行那不对。以为这样,孩子就会改变,可结果往往事与愿违。特别是对待幼儿教育,父母的管教更要讲究方式方法,只是一味的说教会激起孩子本能的叛逆和反抗。教育家苏霍姆林斯基说:“任何一种教育现象,孩子在其中越少感觉到教育者的意图,他的教育效果越大”。“暗 Parents love children, but in many cases, they place themselves as children’s authorities. They even force children to act according to their own will and command verbally, even with impatience to accuse children of not being able to do that. Think so, the child will change, but the result is often contrary to expectations. Especially for early childhood education, parental discipline should pay more attention to methods and methods, just blindly say that the church aroused the child’s instinctive rebellion and resistance. Educator Sukhomlinski said: ”Any kind of educational phenomenon in which the less a child feels the intention of the educator, the greater his education.“ ”dark