常听人们说“心想事成”、“万事如意”,这不过是人们善良的愿望罢了,现实生活中没有这样的事。实际情况常常相反:“心想难以事成”,“不如意事常有八九”。特别是人到了老年,似乎是多事之秋,许多令人不快的事情不时袭来。什么退休金不能按时发放啦,人家对自己不热情,“人走茶凉”啦,身体有病难以治愈悲观失望啦,子女不孝令人寒心啦,孙 Often hear people say “all wishes come true”, “all the best”, but this is just the good wishes of people nothing, in real life there is no such thing. The actual situation is often the opposite: “I think difficult to accomplish”, “unsatisfactory things often 89”. In particular, when people reach old age, it seems that they are troublesome and many unpleasant things happen from time to time. What kind of pension can not be paid on time, people are not enthusiastic about themselves, “people go for tea” friends, the body is difficult to cure pessimistic disappointment, children filial piety chilling friends, grandchildren