1.别人都做得到,为什么你不行?在与孩子的同伴、手足比较时,父母常会贬低孩子的能力,使他的自尊受损、丧失自信。如果孩子对自己都没有信心了,怎会有勇气面对失败呢?2.反正我怎么讲,你就是听不懂!有时不是孩子不能接受失败,而是父母无法承受。某些孩子的理解能力发展得较缓慢,如果父母忽略不同个体的差异,都从自己的角度来看待,就会看不见孩子的优势和能力。3.我看你是没救了!这是严重打 1. Everyone can do it, why do not you? When compared with the children’s companions, brothers and sisters, parents often belittle the child’s ability to make his self-esteem damage and loss of confidence. If the children have no confidence in themselves, how can they have the courage to face the failure? 2. Anyway, what I say, you just do not understand! Sometimes the child can not accept the failure, but the parents can not afford it. Some children’s development of comprehension is relatively slow, if parents ignore the differences between different individuals are from their own point of view, they will not see the child’s strengths and abilities. I think you are not saved! This is a serious hit