一案例背景任性是现代社会大部分孩子的通病,常听同事抱怨自己的孩子老是不听话,脾气大,很难管。面对孩子的任性,你是怎么做的呢?训斥一顿、棍棒吓唬还是置之不理?我家的宝贝——燃宝已经5岁了,越来越能干了,自主性也越来越强。她喜欢找事做,绝不会无所事事待着。于是,燃宝说“我要”、大人说“不行”的较量越来越频繁。不过面对她,我可有自己的招。二案例描述“四点钟学校”放学回来,已是五点多了,进门看见奶 A case background Self-willed is the common problem of most children in modern society, often listen to colleagues complain that their children are always disobedient, temper, hard to control. In the face of the child’s self-willed, how do you do? Scolding, sticks scare or ignore? My baby - Burning treasure is 5 years old, more and more capable, more and more autonomy. She likes to do things, she will never do nothing. Thus, Burning Po said “I want ”, adults say “no ” contest more and more frequently. But in the face of her, I can have my own trick. Case Description “Four o’clock school ” come back from school, it is more than five, the door to see milk