记得台湾诗人郑愁予写过一首诗,被歌手齐豫深情地吟唱。其中有两句让我十分感动,大意是说:地上的人与人之间的距离,比天上的星星与星星之间的距离还要远。我想,隔膜也许是人类最大的、不可能克服的局限性。陌生人之间是隔膜的,而亲人之间何尝不是隔膜的呢?陌生人之间的隔膜人们能够忍受,而亲人之间的隔膜却是人类与生俱来的痛苦之一。 I remember that Zheng Chou, a Taiwanese poet, wrote a poem and was sung affectionately by singer Chyi Yu. I am very moved by two of them, to the effect that the distance between people on the earth is even further than the distance between the stars and the stars in the sky. I think the diaphragm may be the biggest humanity, impossible to overcome the limitations. Between strangers is the diaphragm, but not between the relatives of the diaphragm? The diaphragm between strangers people can tolerate, and the separation between loved ones is one of the inherent human suffering.