钱钟书在其《写在人生边上》一书中写道,吃饭有时很像结婚,名义上最主要的东西,其实往往是附属品。意思是人们说是为了吃饭,其实是为了吃菜,只是为掩饰享受需要,只说吃饭,不说吃菜。虽然他用此讽喻当时的人事时政,但他还是承认,这个世界给人弄得混乱颠倒,到处是磨擦冲突,只有两件最和谐的事物总算 Qian wrote in his book, “Writing on the edge of life,” that eating is sometimes like getting married. The nominally most important thing is actually an accessory. Means that people say is to eat, in fact, to eat vegetables, just to cover up the enjoyment of the need to say that eating, not to eat. Although he used this to satirize the personal affairs of the time, he still conceded that the world was confused and confused. There were conflicts and conflicts everywhere. Only the two most in harmony