独生子女的家长大都“望子成龙“心切,有的过早地教孩子认字、算题、背古诗,有的甚至不顾孩子的兴趣对孩子的某种技能训练“定指标”、“施压力”。殊不知,这种繁琐的机械训练不仅会增加幼儿的负担,而且会使其对学习产生厌烦心理。那么家长应怎样引导孩子呢?依我们多年的幼教实践认为:让孩子在愉悦的心境中获求知识是引发孩子学习兴趣和开发孩子智能的好 Most of the parents of only children are “eager for success.” Some prematurely teach their children to read, count and recite old poems. Some even train their children to “set targets” and “exert pressure” regardless of their interests. As everyone knows, this cumbersome mechanical training will not only increase the burden on young children, but also make them tired of learning. So how should parents guide children? According to our many years of preschool education practice: to let children acquire knowledge in a pleasant state of mind is to stimulate children’s interest in learning and developing children’s intelligence