“代沟”似乎是一个很流行的词语,甚至朋友间也常开玩笑说彼此之间有代沟。而在这里,代沟是指两代人之间在思想上、情感上所产生的距离和隔阂,它阻碍父母与子女、长辈与晚辈之间的正常交流与沟通,严重的还将危及亲子关系。然而为人父母者,该如何跨越这一障碍呢? 一般来说,父母与子女距离最远的时期是在青少年期。因为青年期孩子的生理、心理发展都渐趋成熟,他们都有一种“成人感”,对父母 Generation gap seems to be a very popular term, and even friends often jokingly say that there is a gap between them. Here, generation gap refers to the distance and estrangement between the two generations in terms of thoughts and emotions, which obstruct the normal exchange and communication between parents and children, elders and juniors, and seriously endanger the parent-child relationship. However, parents, how to overcome this obstacle? In general, the farthest distance between parents and children during adolescence. Because adolescent children’s physiological and psychological development are gradually maturing, they all have a “sense of adult” to parents