我有一个上小学三年级的女儿,活泼可爱,不仅学习成绩好,在她参加的课外兴趣班中也是佼佼者。但是最近我发现,她在做错事时对自己的惩罚很严厉,有时会自己伤害自己。比如,在写字和弹钢琴时,如果写错了或弹错了,她就会使劲儿打自己的手。对此我很担心,不知该怎样对待她。河北邓琴生活中有自伤甚至是自虐行为的儿童并不少见,而且这些孩子常是那些家长和老师都喜欢的好孩子、好学生。自虐行为的原因可能有以下几点: I have a daughter who is in the third grade of primary school. She is both lively and lovely. She not only has good academic performance but also excels in her extracurricular interest classes. But lately I found out that she punished herself harshly when doing wrong, sometimes hurting herself. For example, when writing and playing the piano, she mistakes her hand if she is wrong or wrong. I am very worried about this, I do not know how to treat her. It is not uncommon for children in Hebei Dengqin to have self-harmed or self-abusing behaviors, and these children are often good children and good students who both parents and teachers like. The reasons for abusive behavior may include the following: