编辑同志:我丈夫沈某于1995年2月和同乡一起外出打工,同年6月打过一次电话回家后,便与家人中断了联系,至今杳无音信。2005年,我在他打工的城市张贴了近千张寻人启事,并在媒体上刊登了寻人广告,均未查到沈某的下落。10多年来,我不仅要照顾年幼的孩子和体弱多病的公婆,还要种田维持生活。公婆多次劝我改嫁,可我和沈某的婚姻关系至今名存实亡,想离婚却又找不到他。请问,我应如何办理离婚?读者海燕 Comrade editor: My husband Shenmou went out to work with fellow citizens in February 1995, and after having made a phone call in June of the same year, he stopped talking with his family and has so far heard no news. In 2005, I posted nearly 1,000 tracing announcements in the cities where he worked, and published tracing advertisements in the media. None of them found Shen’s whereabouts. For more than 10 years, I have not only to take care of young children and infirm and in-laws, but also to farm and live. Intimates repeatedly advised me to remarry, but I and Shen’s marriage has existed in name only, want to divorce but can not find him. Excuse me, how should I handle the divorce? Reader Swallow