孔子云:“人之初,性本善,性相近,习相远。”。从这句话中,我们可以了解到了,性格主要是后天形成的,后天的环境、教育等因素对人性格的形成起着决定作用。一、家庭教育对孩子性格的影响(1)现在家庭的孩子在家是众多爱的聚集点,家长们无微不至的关爱、照顾,往往会养成孩子任性、不尊重长辈,不容易与其他孩子相处,缺乏友爱,以自我为中心。我曾与一位家长在交谈中了解到,孩子的爷爷、 Confucius said: “people at the beginning, the nature of this good, similar sex, Xi Xiang Yuan.” From these words, we can understand that personality is mainly formed the day after tomorrow, acquired environment, education and other factors play a decisive role in the formation of human personality. First, the impact of family education on children’s personality (1) At home, children are now the focus of many love, parents in every possible way to love and care, tend to develop the child’s wayward, do not respect elders, not easy to get along with other children, Lack of friendship, self-centered. I have talked with a parent learned that the child’s grandfather,