有一件很小的事情曾经给我留下很深的记忆。那是在1987年,我第一次出席国际会议,会议地点是东京的京王大饭店。有一次,我匆匆赶到一个专题报告会的会场时,在门口碰到了一位也正要进会场的外国同行,出于礼貌,我们两人都停住,想让对方先进会场。那位看上去比我年长的男士朝我微笑了一下,用头向门的方向一摆,示意让我先进,其动作非常自然、得体,特别是那个西方式的摆头动作。给人一种亲切感和美感。在匆忙之中我竟无 There is a very small thing once left me a deep memory. That was the first time in 1987 that I was attending an international conference at the Keio Plaza Hotel in Tokyo. Once I rushed to the venue for a special report, I met a foreign colleague who was also going to the venue. In courtesy, both of us stopped and wanted each other advanced. The older man who looked older than me smiled at me and swung his head in the direction of the door to make me advanced. The action was very natural and graceful, especially that of the western style. Gives a sense of intimacy and beauty. In a hurry I actually have nothing