日本人与外国人互相交际的时候有着独特的方式,他们总是会避开直接的表达,常常会静观事态,与对方保持距离,避免被强行要求或伤害感情等。正因如此,在与中国人交际的时候,就不能正确地传达想法和诚意、热情,从而造成误解和不信任。本文通过分析日本人和中国人的交际方式探讨跨文化交际中两国交际方式的不同。 Japanese and foreigners have a unique way of interacting with each other. They always avoid direct expressions, often observe the situation, keep their distance from each other, and avoid being forced to ask or hurt their feelings. Because of this, when communicating with the Chinese people, they can not correctly convey their ideas and sincerity and enthusiasm, thus causing misunderstanding and mistrust. This article explores the differences in the ways of communication between two countries in intercultural communication by analyzing the ways of communication between Japanese and Chinese.