去年过年的时候,我吃过年夜饭,在书房里走来走去,想找一本书看,不知道为什么随手拿起一本佛经,读到了有情生死流转的过程,其中有一段讲到“渴爱”的,竟与过年的心情冥然相合。它说渴爱有三,一是欲爱,是感官享受的渴求;二是有爱,是生与存的渴求;三是无有爱,是不再存在的渴求。我觉得二十岁以前过年是前两者,二十岁以后是第三者。 When I was having a New Year's Eve last year, I had dinner, walked around the study room, looked for a book and wondered why I could pick up a Buddhist sutras and read the process of the life and death of a loved one. Some of them said “ Thirsty love ”, actually in line with the mood of the New Year. It said thirst for love has three, one is for love, is the desire to enjoy the senses; the second is love, life and survival of the thirst; third is no love, is no longer the thirst for existence. I think that before the age of twenty, the New Year is the first two and the third is after twenty.