优秀、健康的家庭，是儿童心智正常发展的土壤。国内外大量的研究表明，有利于儿童身心正常发展的家庭有以下的特点：（１）给孩子提供心理的安全港优秀的家庭使孩子的心理正常发展，情感有所寄托，家长无时不关心孩子的学业，能聚精会神地听孩子讲话，让孩子感受到家庭的幸福 Excellent, healthy family, is the normal development of children’s mental soil. A large number of researches at home and abroad show that the families that are beneficial to the normal development of children’s physical and mental have the following characteristics: (1) providing children with a safe harbor of safety Excellent families make the children’s normal development of psychology, emotional sustenance, parents always care Children’s studies, able to concentrate on listening to the children speak, let the children feel the happiness of the family