一、经他人之口用迂回的方式,通过第三个人之口来恭维他人,会让你的奉承显得更加真诚。比如:“琼对我说他觉得你很聪明。”作为一个奉承的行家,切斯特菲尔德说:“在所有的奉承手段里,这种是最有效的”。而且这种方法挺阴险的,因为你把自己置身事外了。二、要有想象力不要去恭维一些显而易见的事情,要制造点惊喜。举个例 First, by the way of others in a roundabout way, through the mouth of a third person to compliment others, make your flattering more sincere. For example: “Joan said to me he thinks you’re smart.” As a flattering connoisseur, Chesterfield said: “This is the most effective way of all the flatteries.” And this method is very sinister, because you put yourself out of trouble. Second, there must be imagination Do not compliment some obvious things, to create a little surprise. For example