“别看电视,别上网,你不好好学习,以后考不上好中学、好大学,就找不到好工作,将来怎样养活自己?”这似乎是目前中国大部分父母的口头禅。现代社会的现代家庭中,摆在首位的应当是子女的教育问题,很多家长望子成龙心切,通过各种方式来教育孩子,但是大家往往忽略了孩子自己本身的感受,忽略了对孩子现代特征的了解和认识,总是一味追求成人心中孩子的成长方向,使得许多家长和教师爱得辛苦,教得辛苦,不但效果不佳,而且也抹杀了孩子许多该有的童真以及快乐。 “Do not watch TV, do not surf the Internet, you do not study hard, after the test is not good school, good university, can not find a good job, how to feed themselves in the future?” This seems to be most mandarin parents at present mantra. In the modern society of the modern society, the first place should be the education of children. Many parents are eager to find their own ways and educate their children in various ways. However, they often neglect their own feelings and neglect their understanding of children’s modern characteristics And understanding, always blindly pursue the direction of children’s growth in adult minds. As a result, many parents and teachers love hard work and hard work, which not only results in unsatisfactory results, but also denies many of their children’s innocence and happiness.