当一代独生子女开始当上父母之后,他们和孩子的爷爷奶奶们都发现,他们竟然“会生,不会养”了。他们变得很不自信:自己到底会不会科学地、高水平地爱孩子?人们失去了育儿的平常之心,也失去了育儿的从容不迫 When the only child of a generation began to be a parent, both the grandparents of the children and their children discovered that they would “have a chance to live, not a raise.” They become less confident: Will they love their children scientifically and at a high level? People lose the usual heart of parenting and lose their leisurely parenting