南京一位家长来信说:我儿子今年12岁,上小学六年级,过去还算是个听话的孩子,可现在却爱生气,对大不了的小事也要顶嘴,动不动就要反抗。他还跟奶奶说,“不相信我,就要反抗”、“专门说我,就要顶嘴”。真是越大越不懂事,越来越难管教。怎么办?A青春期的孩子,既不是小孩子,也不是 A letter from a Nanjing parent said: My son, who is 12 years old and has reached the sixth grade of elementary school, used to be an obedient child. However, he can only now feel angry and hold back his mouth when it comes to making a big difference. He also told his grandmother said, “do not believe me, we must resist”, “specifically said to me, we should talk back.” The bigger the more naive, more and more difficult to teach. What to do? A adolescent child, neither a child, nor is it