我们这些年轻的家长,平时在一块儿说的最多的就是,让孩子早点独立。可一时也拿不准该怎么做才能让孩子早日自立?——张女士现在有很多家长过早地就让孩子自己独自做很多事了,认为孩子越早“自立”越是独立。但是据美国的教育经验,美国法律有规定,13岁以下的孩子,不能单独一人在家里或外出,必须有人 Our young parents, who usually say the most in common, are to let their children be independent early. Can not be allowed for a while to get rid of the child as soon as possible? - Ms. Zhang now has a lot of parents letting children do things too early on their own, and thinking that the sooner the child is, the more independent the self is. However, according to the American education experience, U.S. law stipulates that children under the age of 13 can not be alone at home or out and must have someone