个别谈话是思想政治工作常用的一种方法,也是指导员必须具备的基本功。对于指导员而言,不但是一个思想水平问题,还是一个谈话艺术问题。俗话说得好:“一句话能把人说得笑,也会把人说得跳。”可见,个别谈话不讲究谈话艺术是不行的。进行艺术性的个别谈话,指导员应做到:摸清情况,找准话题;掌握特点,选择时机;因人而异,注意分寸;把握细节,取得实效。一、捕捉信息。谈话先交心。与战士个别谈话,不同于普通的对话,因为带兵人要通过谈话来摸清情况、教育对方,具 Individual conversation is a commonly used method of ideological and political work as well as a basic skill that instructors must possess. For the instructor, it is not only a matter of ideological level, but also an issue of art of conversation. As the saying goes: “A word can make people laugh, it will put people to jump.” "It can be seen, individual conversation does not pay attention to the art of conversation is not acceptable. To conduct artistic individual conversations, the instructor should do the following: find out the situation and pinpoint the topic; grasp the characteristics and choose the opportunity; vary from person to person, pay attention to the sense of proportionality; grasp the details and achieve tangible results. First, capture the information. Conversation talk first. The individual talk with the warrior is different from the ordinary conversation because the soldier should find out the situation through conversation, educate each other,