望子成龙之心,人皆有之,古已有之。而随着独生子女的出现,在人们心目中强烈地凸现出来。于是,钢琴脱销,电子琴品种翻新,游戏机厂家越来越多,各地各区的画画班、摄影班、英语班如雨后春笋,家长们简直不知道该如何把自己年轻时未学会的东西、想学而没机会学的东西在孩子身上补回来,不知道该怎样把那些能出人头地的一技之长一夜之间融合到孩子的个性中去。这样的求龙心切其实是强加成人意志。反过来还有一种心理,往往出现在孩子上学之后。家里的小神童放到学校去一比,家庭经济条件、早期教育方向和程度以及孩子生长发育,心智成熟等等多方面的个体差异全面表现出来。于是乎,许多家长又回到了最原始的愿望:只要能健康成长,找个门路有个工作就行。尤其现在到处抨击儿童负担过重,更不必对小孩子管教过严,孩子想要啥给啥,总之满足是第一。 Succeed in the heart, everyone has it, the ancient has been. With the advent of the only child, people strongly emphasized. As a result, the piano out of stock, varieties of electronic piano renovation, game consoles more and more around the district drawing classes, photography classes, English classes springing up, parents simply do not know how to put their youth did not learn something, want to learn And did not have the opportunity to learn something to make up for the child, do not know how to put those skilled overnight fusion into the child’s personality. This Qiu Long heart is actually imposing adult will. In turn there is a psychological, often after the children go to school. Small prodigies at home to go to school, family economic conditions, the direction and extent of early education and child growth and development, mental maturity, and many other aspects of the individual differences fully demonstrated. Ever since, many parents have returned to the most primitive wish: as long as you can grow up healthily, find a job there is a job. In particular, it is now criticizing children everywhere too much, not to care too much about children, what they want to give, and in short, satisfaction is the first.