人生充满坎坷,还会出现这样那样的变故,此时受影响的不仅是心理成熟的家长,还有幼小的孩子。俗话说:“人小不在眼角。”孩子的心理状况往往被我们忽视,其实孩子在家庭变故中产生的心理动荡、创伤,比家长更激烈、严重,而且迟迟难以平静、愈合,以至会改变孩子的性格和命运。所以, Full of ups and downs in life, there will be such an accident, this time affected not only the psychological maturity of parents, as well as young children. As the saying goes: “Children are not in the corner of their eyes.” Children’s psychological conditions are often ignored by us. In fact, the psychological turmoil and trauma they cause during family repercussions are more intense and serious than their parents and can hardly be calm, healed or even changed Children’s character and destiny. and so,