乐乐是个5岁的小女孩,爸妈从小就把她当男孩子来教育。他们说如今的社会充满竞争,女孩子也要像男孩子一样开朗、敢做敢为才会有出息。于是,从女儿一出生起,乐乐爸妈就从不给她买女孩子气的布娃娃,也不给她买小粉裙子,而且只鼓励她跟小男孩交朋友。现在乐乐还真是一副男孩子样儿。像乐乐父母同样心态的爸妈不在少数,他们希望小女孩多玩一些活跃的游戏,希望女孩也能够像男孩一样粗犷、出色,有些父母还不自觉地把一些限制强加在女孩身上,如不允许她玩给洋娃娃梳妆打扮之类的游戏。育儿专家指出,像乐乐爸妈这样的父母,其实是走入了一个育儿的误区:“女性特点”是女孩子的天性,千万不要扼杀和剥夺,否则,会造成孩子长大后的性别错位,不利于孩子的心理健康。因此,父母在养育女儿的过 Lele is a 5-year-old little girl, parents put her as a boy to education. They say that today’s society is full of competition. Girls should be as cheerful as boys, and courageous and courageous. Thus, since the birth of the daughter, Lele parents never buy her bumpy doll, do not buy her a small powder skirt, and only encouraged her to make friends with the little boy. Now Lele is really a boy. Like the Lele parents parents are also the same mentality of a handful, they want the little girl to play some active games, hope girls can be as rough as a boy, excellent, some parents unconsciously impose some restrictions on the girl, if not Allow her to play doll grooming and the like. Parenting experts pointed out that parents such as Lele, in fact, is a mistaken idea into a parenting: “Female characteristics ” is a girl’s nature, do not strangle and deprive, otherwise it will cause children to grow up Dislocation of the sex is not conducive to children’s mental health. Therefore, parents have raised their daughters