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当两个孩子大学毕业,走南闯北,不断跳槽更换工作岗位,而在每个岗位干得都不算太差的时候,我也该有资格就两个孩子走过的道路,谈谈通才教育了。所谓通才教育,我认为,就是做父母的不要用过于功利的眼光,过早为孩子设定目标,预设自己的价值观。可是,在现实生活中,为孩子过早设定目标的父母真是太多了。本来,让孩子弹弹钢琴、写写大字、画画小猫小狗、到英语之角练练听力与口语,都是很好的事情,属于通才教育的一部分。但是,带着成名成家的强烈目的,让孩子的业余时间只干一件事情,这就枯燥乏味了,有害孩子的天性与智力的
When two children graduated from college, traveled south and kept changing jobs, and each job was not too bad, I was entitled to talk about general education on the road that the two children walked through. The so-called general education, I think, that is, parents should not be too utilitarian vision, set goals for children prematurely, pre-set their own values. However, in real life, there are so many parents who set their goals too early for their children. Originally, having children play the piano, write characters, draw kittens and puppies, and practice listening and speaking in the Horn of the Corner were all very good things and part of the general education. However, with the strong purpose of fame and fortune, letting children do one thing in their spare time is boring and harmful to children’s nature and intelligence