若男女彼此懂得体谅,懂得换位思考,那么辛苦便不再是苦,再多的付出,也能甘之如饴。一有人说婚姻是围城,有人说婚姻是牢笼,也有人说婚姻是爱情的坟墓。总之,若谈及婚姻二字,越来越多的人口中蹦出来的是困惑、疲累、心伤等字眼。仿佛婚姻之内的男女都过着糟糕的生活,在日复一日的一地鸡毛里死命挣扎,犹如困兽之斗。 If men and women know each other considerately and understand empathy, then hard work will no longer be painful, and more will be paid. Some people say that marriage is a siege, some people say that marriage is a prison, some people say that marriage is the tomb of love. In short, if we talk about the word marriage, more and more people pop out the words of confusion, fatigue and heart-wrenching. It seems as if the men and women in the marriage are living a terrible life, struggling day after day in the feathers, like a beast fighting.