Q“妈,我的同桌买新球鞋了,我的球鞋一点也不好看,更不是名牌,这样太丢人了,我要买双新的。”“妈,我们班某某买新电脑了,我的电脑太旧,人家笑话我是老牛拉破车。你什么时候给我买一台新电脑啊?”念高中的女儿每个星期天一回到家,就会对我提出类似的要求。女儿大了,加上平时住校,有了攀比心理,这我理解。但是家里经济条件并不太好,孩子每次提出要求,我都很为难,答应不可能,拒绝不忍心。 Q “Mom, my new shoes at the same table, and my shoes are not good-looking, but not brand-name, so shameful, I want to buy a pair of new. ” “Mom, we buy a new computer class My computer is too old, people joke I am old cow pull the car.When do you buy me a new computer ah? ”Read high school daughter return home every Sunday, will be made to me a similar request . Big daughter, coupled with usual school, with comparisons psychology, which I understand. However, the economic conditions at home are not very good. Every time a child requests it, I am in a dilemma. I promise it is impossible and I refuse to bear it.