拥有长大了的孩子的一件乐事是我不必再催促他们写感谢信。在他们小的时候，三个孩子会口述他们的感谢，我则记录下来，再装上他们自己画的作为礼物的画。然而，到埃莉诺、萨拉、德鲁可以自己写感谢信时，他们却要在我无数次的催促、激励下才会勉强写几句。 “你给爷爷写信了吗 One of the pleasures of having grown children is that I no longer have to urge them to write thank-you letters. As they were young, the three children would express their gratitude, and I recorded it and put on my own painting as a gift. However, when Eleanor, Sarah, and Drew could write their own thank-you note, they would barely write a few sentences after my urging and encouragement. "Did you write to grandpa?