抱怨的人不见得不善良,但常常不受欢迎。抱怨的人以为自己经历了世上最大的困难,他忘记了听他抱怨的人也同样经历过这些,但感受不同。抱怨什么呢?像烟头烫破一个气球一样,让别人和自己泄气。天下有好几样无价值的行为。譬如,在沙漠里推销一只船,收藏鱼刺,再就是抱怨。宽容地说, The people complaining are not necessarily not good, but they are often unpopular. People who complained thought they had experienced the greatest difficulties in the world. Those who forgot to hear him complained also experienced these same things, but they felt different. What do you complain about? Like a cigarette that burns a balloon, let others deflate you. There are several kinds of worthless acts in the world. For example, selling a boat in the desert, collecting fish bones, and then complaining. Tolerantly,