耐挫折教育是小学素质教育的重要组成部分,通过对小学生进行思想教育和心理疏导,减少小学生的思想负担和心理压力,使他们形成积极向上的思想观念和人生态度,以乐观的心态面对学习和生活中的不如意之事,对于小学生性格的塑造以及品德的培养均有着不容忽视的作用。然而很多教师和家长对耐挫折教育的认知不够科学、全面,导致耐挫折教育的实施效果不是十分理想,无法发挥其应有的效用。为了转变这一现状,应加大对耐挫折教育的宣传力度,建立学校和家庭的联动机 Resistance to setbacks is an important part of quality education in primary schools. Through primary school students’ ideological education and psychological counseling, they reduce their mental burdens and mental stress so that they can form positive and progressive ideas and attitudes toward life and face them with an optimistic attitude And the unhappy things in life, have an important role to play in shaping the character of pupils and cultivating moral character. However, many teachers and parents are not sufficiently scientific and comprehensive in their understanding of frustration education, which leads to the effect of frustration education being not very satisfactory and unable to exert its due effect. In order to change this status quo, we should step up publicity on frustrating education and set up a linkage between school and family