老人退休后,生活比较清闲,遇到老同事、老邻居总是要聊上好一会儿,和亲朋好友讲述自己的生活。对于父母们来说,他们的共同话题就是孩子。谈谈孩子的成就会让他们感到幸福,但是也会让他们产生攀比心理。拿孩子作比较,别人生活幸福就会很羡慕,回家再夸奖人家的孩子多么有出息,给自己孩子心里增加很大压力。 After retirement, the elderly live in a relatively leisure time. When meeting with old colleagues and old neighbors, they always have to talk about for a while and tell their own lives with friends and relatives. For parents, their common topic is children. Talking about their child’s accomplishments will make them feel happy, but they also make them comparisons. Take the children for comparison, others will be very envious of the happiness of life, go home and then praise others how good their children, to their children to increase a lot of pressure.