如果孩子动不动就拿一些芝麻绿豆大的事情向你告状,这真令一些父母不知所措:对他的告状很关心吧,怕孩子养成动不动就告状的习惯;不去理会吧,又怕孩子真的遇到了问题,受了欺负,真是两难……其实,父母并不用对孩子的告状太过在意。孩子喜欢表现,是儿童期的一个特点,很正常。这一时期,孩子的独立性没有很好地发展起来,依赖心理还比较严重,解决困难的能力也不强。因此,当他们面对生活中的一些问题的时候,很自然地就想到找成人去解决。 If the children take some sesame mung bean big things at every turn to sue you, this really makes some parents overwhelmed: very concerned about his report, afraid of children to develop the habit of complain; ignore it, afraid of children Really encountered problems, subject to bullying, it is really a dilemma ... ... In fact, parents do not have too much care about the child’s complainant. Children like to show, is a characteristic of childhood, it is normal. During this period, the children’s independence did not develop well and their psychological dependence was still severe. Their ability to solve problems was not strong either. Therefore, when they face some problems in life, they naturally think of finding an adult to solve.