发展心理学的研究表明,孩子六七岁时就有了独立自主的要求,所以从这个年龄段开始,孩子就会变得不听话,和父母顶嘴的情况也时有发生。到了十一二岁的时候,随着孩子接触外界信息的增多,这种反叛精神更加突出,顶撞父母的时候更多,因此,有些父母非常着急,认为孩子跟自己不亲了, Studies in developmental psychology show that children have their own independent requirements when they are six or seven years old. Therefore, children from this age group become disobedient and their parents often talk backwards. By the age of eleven or two, the spirit of rebellion became more prominent as children became exposed to information from the outside world, and the time was more for their parents. Therefore, some parents are very anxious to think that their children are not pro-relatives,