很多父母主张有错必纠、防微杜渐的教育方式,对孩子的一举一动都从严要求。诚然,对孩子严格要求是必要的,但要注意把握严格教育的度。如果对孩子过于苛刻、严厉,有错就批,有问题就惩罚,势必会产生消极影响。其弊端主要表现为以下几方面: 有损于儿童的自尊心和自信心。幼儿受认知能力和思维发展水平的限制,自我意识和评价能力都很低。如果他们听到的总是批评告诫,自尊心就会受损,自信心就会动摇。长此以往,孩子就会形成“我不行”“我不会”的自我否 Many parents argue that mistakes must be corrected and that preventive measures should be taken to ensure that every move of children is strictly required. It is true that strict demands on children is necessary, but pay attention to grasp the degree of strict education. If the child is too harsh, harsh, wrongly approved, punished with questions, it will inevitably have a negative impact. Its drawbacks mainly in the following aspects: detrimental to children’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Toddlers are limited by their level of cognitive development and thinking, and have low self-awareness and evaluation skills. If they always criticize the warnings they hear, self-esteem will suffer and self-confidence will be shaken. Over time, children will form “I can not” “I do not” self-denial