心理学家告诉我们,每个生活着的人,都必然有许许多多的心理需要,否则就与行尸走肉无异。著名的美国心理学家默里,对人类的心理需要进行过专门研究,他得出人类至少有20种心理需要的结论。其中有8种心理需要尤为重要,而且它们又是夫妻之间必须得到满足的。如果夫妻双方或一方忽视了它们,不能有意识地去满足对方 Psychologists tell us that every living person must have a lot of psychological needs, otherwise it is no different from the walking dead. Murray, the famous American psychologist, conducted a special study on the psychological needs of mankind. He came to the conclusion that mankind has at least 20 kinds of psychological needs. Eight of these psychological needs are of particular importance, and they are the ones that must be met between husband and wife. If one or both spouses ignore them, they can not consciously satisfy each other