心态决定行为,行为决定命运。一个成功的富商和一个罪犯回忆他们的童年,提到了相似的一件事。犯人说:小时候,妈妈给我和弟弟买了两双鞋子,一双是布鞋,一双是皮鞋。妈妈问我们,你们想要哪一双?我一看那双皮鞋,好漂亮,我非常想要。可是弟弟抢先喊:“我要皮鞋!”妈妈看了他一眼,批评他说: Psychology determines behavior, behavior determines the fate. A successful businessman and a criminal recall their childhood and mentioned a similar thing. Prisoners said: When I was young, my mother bought two pairs of shoes for me and my younger brother, a pair of cloth shoes and a pair of shoes. Mom asked us, which pair do you want? I look at the pair of shoes, so beautiful, I really want. But my brother first shouted: “I want shoes!” Mom looked at him and criticized him: